A celebration of your timeless love – a couple’s photo shoot is a truly momentous event. If you’re looking for a way to show that special someone just how much you care, booking the two of you one of these experiences is a romantic idea.

Before you dive in head first, here are eight things you should know about the shoot:

1.  Couple’s shoots are sexy

The first thing that you need to know about a couple’s boudoir shoot is that it can be a sexy thing to do. Whether you’re celebrating an anniversary or planning it as a pre-wedding treat, nothing quite says romance like this ultra sweet activity. Before you get started, you should chat with your partner and see what they think about the idea. The fact of the matter is that it takes a whole load of confidence to do the shoot, but it’s worth it.

2.  You don’t have to get naked

One of the biggest misconceptions when it comes to couple’s boudoir shoots is that you have to get naked. You don’t. You can wear whatever you feel most comfortable in and find something that works well for both of you. The idea of stripping all the way down may be an intimidating one and that’s completely normal. Make sure that you speak to your photographer ahead of time and decide what’s best for you and your partner.

3.  Choosing your outfit is a thrill

Next up, comes the most exciting part of the experience – choosing your outfit. You’ll be pleased to know that there are loads of options here. It’s worth shopping around and trying on a range of lingerie styles before you find the one for you. For instance, something uber sexy like a full bodysuit with sheer mesh material could be the way to go. Alternately, you may want to opt for something retro and cool like a babydoll lingerie look. Pick outfits with matching accents (colors, patterns, or styles) for your partner or choose something complementary if their style is completely different from yours.

4.  You’ll need to get preening

In the lead-up to the big event, there’s one thing that you need to remember. It’s time to get preening. Most photographers advise that you should take care of the finer details. For example, you might want to get your hair dyed or have your nails done professionally. Your partner may also want to consider getting pampered too. These small things not only make you feel empowered and stunning, but they will also mean that the shoot has an altogether more polished look. Nice.

Related: What To Bring To Your Boudoir Photo Shoot

5.  Make a game plan with your partner

When you’re about to go for a couple’s shoot, you should know the basics. If it’s the first time that you and your partner have done something wild like this, it could pay off to have a direct conversation about what each of you expects. You can also talk about what you’re willing to do during the shoot and what you’re not willing to do. Needless to say, having these boundaries ahead of time means that you will both feel comfortable with the process.

6.  Research classic boudoir poses

How much do you know about boudoir shoots? If you’re a little in the dark, it’s time to do some research. It may be helpful to take a look at various couple’s shoot pictures and see what works for the pair of you. Look at some of the classic poses and discuss whether you think that they would work and whether you want to recreate them. You might even want to take examples along with you to the shoot for the photographer to see.

7.  Relax before the shoot starts

When the day of the shoot finally comes around, there’s one thing that you absolutely have to remember. You both need to relax and keep a cool head. It’s only natural that you may feel a tad nervous when you’re doing a shoot for the first time. In the hours before the shoot, you might want to take a warm bath, meditate, or chill out and read a book. Do whatever it takes to get each of you into the right headspace for the event.

8.  Let the photographer lead

Finally, when you arrive at the photo shoot, it’s time to get started. You might have ideas that you want to share with your photographer and you absolutely should discuss what you’re hoping to achieve. After that, though, you need to put the power in the photographer’s hands. They are a professional and know how to get the best out of couple’s boudoir shoots. Before you know it, you will have some jaw-droppingly gorgeous pictures together.

Related: 4 Ways To Make Your Boudoir Photo Shoot Less Stressful

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